What to do when you get it wrong
Well, it happens. Some days you just go barking up the wrong tree.
What do you do when the whole group goes in a completely different direction to what you’re suggesting?
Basically, you’ve got it wrong.
But even if you’re right and they’re all wrong, you’re not going to win. You can’t fight City Hall. So save your strength.
The worst thing you can do is to bluster or behave defensively. It will only make you look bad. Or pompous. Or like a weasel.
The best thing is to say something like:
Sorry ... beating the wrong drum.
Knock the table lightly then smile.
A few simple words like this gets you out of a hole without looking bad.
Nobody will think worse of you for admitting you were beating the wrong drum.
This phrase works like magic. Use when necessary. |